When we lose loved ones, it is difficult. Seems as though we did not have enough time and want to share so much more. I know when I lost my husband I felt that way. My dearest friend, Sue, just lost her father last Friday. He was 91. There is always the wish for a little more time. Here is a poem I wrote when my husband passed on.
NO FAREWELL
with many more memories to share
together.
Walks
and talks
and
laughter.
Shells to gather
vistas
to behold.
I want birthdays and anniversaries,
holidays and vacations,
more to fill my heart.
I yearn to share skies
freckled with waltzing stars,
vibrant sunrises
peeking over hilltops,
lofty firs
silhouetted in a stalking fog,
spherical raindrops
jewelling emerald leaves,
vibrant butterflies
dancing in a field of flowers,
and tranquil sunsets
settling to sleep.
It is all more significant,
more memorable when shared.
I cannot bid adieu
to you.
I am not ready to say
goodbye.
Rose Lefebvre ©
So beautiful
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This is so lovely and we can all relate to the feelings. Thank you for sharing. Sharon
ReplyDeleteYou always wish you could have made more memories. There is never enough time. Lovely poem and photograph. CJ
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful poem. It touched my heart so deeply. Grief never leaves us, but it does change over time. As you so eloquently said, I was not ready to let go.
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Mary
Strange, I was thinking about dad a lot today. Losing a father is hard; I hope Sue can find solace in the time she did have. The impermanence of life is what makes each moment so special. You are very skilled with evoking literary image and feeling. Happy to see you are doing well when I check here. Jimmy
ReplyDeleteLovely image to accompany your poem of loss.
ReplyDeleteSo touching. Vicki
ReplyDeleteYes! I felt this! Thank you. Ann
ReplyDeleteRose, you always have written so eloquently. Wonderful imagery. Candace
ReplyDeleteI remember how heartbroken you were. Am so glad you are living and loving again. Bless you. Liz
ReplyDeleteBeautiful as always Rose. Hope you are writing all of these down in a book. Happy Wednesday eve to you. xoxo Kris
ReplyDeleteA beautiful poem, Rose. We who have lost dear ones feel those memories of happy days and shed tears when we feel their loss. Thank you. Alice
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